I got to thinking today about BDSM and how much it impacts my life. I'm just going to say one of favorite quotes that i found online. Its partly mine and someone else's. I can't remember who actually said it. "A slave will lose everything in their chains--even the desire to be free. I never want to be free, of the chains that bind me."
There's another one that I feel answers the question about gay and lesbian relationship, if anyone ever asked my opinion. "Love is love, it knows no boundaries, it has no agenda, it pays no attention to race or gender, it anchors us to believe in ourselves."